I am on Facebook and have been for a while now. I don't get too involved. I check it once or twice a day, read statuses, sometimes post my own status and then log off. It's been a great tool to check on people from my past lives (i.e. elementary and high school) but I don't get too wrapped up and try to keep my friends list cropped. Despite the fact that I don't get too involved, there are some things that are pet peeves of mine on there. One pet peeve, was able to take care of was all those games and things people play that were showing up in my News Feed.
My major pet peeve though is when folks get on Facebook and post these kind of statuses:
"I'll be cutting some of you guys off here on FB so take this as a warning!"
"Some of ya'll don't ever talk to me so you will be de-friended this afternoon."
"Oh cruel world, Facebook has done me ever so wrong! I'm taking an extended leave!"
"I hate when folks post stupid status updates! I don't care!"
"If you don't like what I'm saying, if it pisses you off, too bad! Take me off your friends list!"
I just don't understand the point of these types of statuses. If you want to prune your friends list, JUST DO IT. No type of announcement is needed. If you just deleted them as friends, if it's true that you guys are not that close, they probably wouldn't even notice. People collect friends on Facebook like Z1 collects rocks: not much of a criteria so long as it's a rock. If you need to leave Facebook because it has taken over your life, JUST DO IT. If you don't like what folks have to say you have the option to block them so JUST DO IT. If you have folks on your Friends List that would take offense at you being who you are, take yourself off their friend list. JUST DO IT. For goodness sake.
The world of Facebook has to be the most ridiculous world ever. People taking offense at being de-friended. Letting the world know their most personal details because they've forgotten that Facebook is *PUBLIC* place even if your page is private. I'm approaching 29 but I definitely feel like I'm out of step with the times. Facebook is just not that serious and I don't really care about what goes on there. It doesn't affect my life that profoundly. And I really don't understand why it gets to that level with some people.
I know, I know, to each his own. But if something about Facebook annoys you, feel free to JUST DO IT. Whatever it is. Because it's just not that serious.